In every relationship, we need stability, security, trust and initiative.
In view of all these, I somewhat feel that my relationship is not progressing, in fact as the day passes, it is deteriorating.
Dear was joking with me the other day that we r at the ‘相见如冰’ stage. Although I laugh with her, but i felt that way. Everyone might thinks that dear and me are doing fine in the relationship. In actual fact, we are not.
For one, we are not doing any of the romantic things that a couple are doing. Eg: we don't make a really crazy decision last min and execute it. She will be the one with lot of consideration which end up killing the mood.
Then, we are not meeting up as often as we should, I guess that is cause both of us ain't taking the initiative to do so at all. y? Coz we are afraid of being rejected.
Thirdly, any date that I want to have with her end up being a group outing coz our clique will somehow join us or she would invite them. Even if i reject the idea, she will give me her reason which make me give in. (70% of the time)
Lastly, we dun chat on the phone as daily coz our timing is super off. She will always slp by the time I get home. (Eg: 10 to 11pm)
And whenever, we try to solve the issues, the efforts are rather half hearted coz we will start taking things for granted after 1 week or so.
Did we trust each other too much or we are really slowly drifting off? Now that is the real question.
Silence ;
